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Our right brains are attracted to mates who already possess the potential ability to have perfect empathy for our inner worlds. I have consistently found in my work with couples that partners have experienced highly similar trauma and have stored highly similar unmetabolized emotions from their childhoods.
Our right brains are attracted to mates who already possess the potential ability to have perfect empathy for our inner worlds. I have consistently found in my work with couples that partners have experienced highly similar trauma and have stored highly similar unmetabolized emotions from their childhoods.
Empathy is a vital quality for a therapist, as are good social skills and high ethical standards. Perhaps the most important consideration of all is how the clinician presents themselves. Do they have a professional appearance? Do they appear trustworthy and non-judgmental? Does this person have a good reputation?
In Neurodynamic Couples Therapy, exploring feelings is the pathway to metabolizing and integrating them into a cohesive sense of self and relationships and creating a bond of empathy and understanding between partners. The primary technique we use to explore feelings is what we call “following threads.”
Some forms of therapy purport that this metabolizing can be done nonverbally, but we believe that it takes the translation of right-brain experiences into words in order to adequately and fully create the understanding of self and the other that is necessary for genuine empathy.
Robert Stolorow and George Atwood (2018) have written about emotional dwelling as an important expansion of our understanding of empathy. While curiosity can be seen as a left-brain technique of the therapist, since it involves putting feelings into words, emotional dwelling is a right-brain process.
The skilled therapist must work to develop a deeper–and equally balanced–understanding and empathy for both partners’ contributions to their repetitive conflicts. Perhaps the identified patient played the same painful role in their family of origin. Perhaps there are feelings tied to being a “bad guy” or “good guy”.
Viscerally experiencing their childhood pain together and voicing their mutual understanding and empathy are the neurobiopsychological mechanisms that “unclog” the partners’ brains and free their energy for permanent growth and development. I have referred to this neurobiopsychological mechanism as the perfect storm in intimate relationships.
The competent therapist deftly moves back and forth between the present and past to stimulate understanding, empathy, and permanent integration of childhood wounds and traumas. The reliving is happening in the present, but its purpose is to reveal the emotions from the past that are being experienced by both partners.
It requires much understanding, empathy and restraint to see the wounded child behind a violent act, while advocating safety for both adult partners. (Exceptions will be addressed in the next post.) Therapists have heard many stories about a partner who becomes violent and then feels horrified and ashamed about harming their mate.
Too often couple conflicts make therapists anxious, and they prematurely shut down the most fertile ground for empathy and understanding. This should be an end-goal for the work; not the first reaction from the therapist. Knowing how to respond to this opportunity is the key to effective couples treatment.
Almost always, the answer is “yes”, creating both surprise and a new level of empathy. Commonly, at the end of this process with one partner, the therapist turns to the other and asks, “Have you ever felt any of these feelings?” Next post: Roadblocks in therapy
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